More often than not, women don’t even realize when they are pushing a man away from them by turning them off. This is because of the mistakes they commit that turn a man off. If you don’t want to commit these mistakes ever in your life, then find out what turns a man off right below.
1. Changing their Facebook status immediately
Situation 1: You go with him for your first date and have a fabulous time. He says he will see you soon.
Situation 2: The next morning you change your Facebook status to committed.
Situation 3: He never calls you for the second date.
Yep, that’s what will happen when you do something as silly as changing your relationship status to committed or in a relationship just after your first date. Give the man some time to at least think about you, leave alone the relationship.
2. Staring incessantly
This will creep anyone out, ladies! You do need to pay attention to him, but that doesn’t mean you keep staring at him. Move your eyes away from him once in a while and only look at him when he’s talking to you. On other occasions, look down, but don’t keep looking at him 24/7.
3. Having too much body hair
This turn off takes place at lightning speed. The moment any man sees hair at the wrong places on your body like hands, legs, armpits or facial hair, he will be running or wishing to run miles away from you.
4. Having body odor
Smelling good is what turns a man on. So obviously if you turn up for a date with body odor or with clumps of deo visible on your sleeves, it’s a definite turn off for any man.
5. Being a female chauvinist
Just as women say they do not like male chauvinists, men also find female chauvinists too annoying. If women want men to treat them with respect, they also expect the same attitude to be reciprocated. No one wants to date a woman who has a biased and feminist attitude. It’s a great turn off for a man.
6. Having a nagging behavior
Men in general do not like women who constantly complain or nag. So if you’re out on a date with a man, you need not complain about the soup that was served cold or that the weather is too cold/hot or that you forgot to apply nail paint. This sort of behavior is a complete turn off for a man.
7. Giving the silent treatment
Some women are known to give the silent treatment to their man if they find something annoying about them or something they did. It kills a man to know what’s going on in the woman’s mind or why she is upset. This turns a man off completely as he believes in talking out everything with his lady love.
8. Being self-centered
Okay, no one likes to constantly listen to their partner ranting on and on about their achievements, failures, happenings at school or work and blah, blah. This goes for a man too. He doesn’t like to hear a woman go on, speaking about herself and concentrating on no one, not even her man, but herself.
9. Focusing too much on her career
A man does like his lady to be independent and be able to stand on her own feet. But he doesn’t want that independence to creep into their relationship. For instance, they are out for a romantic candlelit dinner and she keeps attending her boss’ calls. Which man would like that huh?
So pretty ladies, take care and learn to avoid these silly mistakes that turn your man off.
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